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How to determine the policies and upbringing of the child after divorce?

If the spouses have common minor children, divorce is in the courts. The exception is if one of the spouses (paragraph 2 of article 19. article 21 of the RF IC):

– recognized by the court as missing;

– recognized by court as legally incapable;

– convicted of the offence to imprisonment for a term exceeding three years.

In the absence of agreement between the spouses, the decision about who after the divorce the child will live, must take the court.

The courts, as a rule, does not itself initiate the decision of the question of who will raise the child after divorce. The non-custodial parent’s right and obligation to participate fully in the upbringing of the child and the parent with whom the child lives has no right to interfere with it (if such communication with parents does not harm the physical and mental health of the child’s moral development) (clause 1, article 66 of the family code). The courts should not wish to change this order. However, spouses are entitled to take its own steps to change the General upbringing of children after divorce.

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If the child does not respond to treatment and requests

Last week in the newsletter I asked the question: “What is troubling you the most in the child, myself, my family?”

After that, I was threatened by an avalanche of emails with answers to this question. And they keep coming :).

To reply to all — I’ll need time, so much to ask to have patience. I now give structure to your writing, to prepare a number of articles. We get something in the form of a marathon :).

And now you can read the answer to the first question from her mother Juliana:

“ Most of all I am now worried about the development of my daughter.

She is 1.5 years. The fact that she does not react when her name, your name, request something to give, to approach, to look at. It seems weird to me, especially when I see different in this respect of her peers.

When she explain something that she never looks in the direction of the speaker, maybe in 80-90% of cases. But hearing she’s okay and says she has a few words like mom, dad Cach, drink, Kaka, about 10 words I guess.

And if, for example, to say something to her that I understand she wants to do — let’s go watch cartoons, for example, then it is quickly going to it… Continue reading

Thief-vorobyshka, or how to wean a child to misappropriate

Why attracts others? Psychology of child stealing

The child finds it difficult to understand why the teacher would permit him to take home all of what he did today — drawings or something Kalendae them from clay, and pencils, which he drew, or the clay will not allow it.

Growing up, the child learns to understand the difference between personal and public. Just little need to explain it all the time. And, not just explain, but to deny without asking to borrow someone else’s.

When the child is all right, he’s healthy — it’s “age” theft is only a small episode in your life in the future, disappearing once and for all.

But if the child has some problems that it cannot resolve on their own, the kid chooses the theft as a way to distract him from his personal problems. This is usually the theft is not “for show”, and “secretly”. Such a theft is generally peculiar guys, who are soon to go to school. Growing up, they strive to find new friends. But it happens that they don’t find those peers that need their feelings and friendship, and as a result feel lonely and useless. Therefore, in order to draw attention to themselves, they don’t just steal, and generously bestowed stolen, not even using it.

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The Development of logical thinking in children
For the child the ability to think logically includes the ability to analyze things, to compare and to generalize them, subjecting the classification to build and systematized by certain characteristics…

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The Child and the computer
I Think many parents as I'm concerned-to put or not to put children at the computer? I have to admit was very confused as to what my four year-old does…

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Calculated the sex of the baby!
Gone are the prejudices, and the progress has reached unprecedented miracles. Using the life experiences of the older generation and the achievement of scientific progress, couples are now engaged in…

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