“Oh, this transitional age”,” many parents sigh and complain about incomprehensible to them the child’s behavior. Transitional or difficult is usually called the period of life of children from 12 to 16 years. This time, many moms and dads waiting with genuine anxiety. But is it really dangerous adolescence, maybe the excitement of adults greatly exaggerated? Let’s try to understand this question.
One against all
Psychologists believe adolescence crisis and even dangerous. It was at this time boys and girls grow dramatically, changing both externally and internally. During this period the child usually is a reassessment of values, he tries to understand his “I” in the world.
In addition, teenagers undergoing significant hormonal changes in the body, psychological state becomes unstable: the child’s mood changes dramatically, he for no apparent reason can yell at their parents or suddenly burst into tears…
Teens covered with one desire – in whatever began to look older. If earlier the child obediently fulfilled the instructions of their parents, now he is able to rebel against household responsibilities. The teenager may seem to infringe upon Continue reading
You know the desire of younger preschoolers to independence. It acquires a moral sense in an activity in which the child manifests his attitude towards others. It is not only the execution of specific orders from adults, but also his activities of daily living. The baby is not aware that his first work activity necessary for himself and others, because mastering the right skills allows him to manage without help, do not bother other people by taking care of yourself. The child does not understand that by doing so he takes care of them. This motive of labour youngest preschooler is formed only under the influence of adults. Mastering self-help skills to enable the child to help other children, it requires some effort to achieve the desired result and promotes perseverance.
Thus, the mastery of younger preschool skills such as self – efficient means of education such moral qualities as independence and perseverance.
The family has favorable conditions for attraction of a preschool child to work. Labor order, which the child performs Continue reading
Somehow in one of the shows on TV showed the nursing home. Many inhabitants of the house were brought here by their children and left in the care of the state. The headmistress says that gradually, the children rarely visit their parents. At first, the old people are outraged, offended, then accept, i.e., as expected, move on the scale of emotions to apathy and death. And interestingly, for 25 years, her work was never a time that someone said it I raised these children. No one has claimed responsibility!
The situation according to our observations, is very characteristic: every parent believes the duty of children to provide him with the attention, support and care in old age. But you ask those who think so, what they did in the process of bringing to this character trait is caring and consideration for others? Very simple truth is that will create is what you get. Why is it that people voluntarily take on this is not very easy to wear: it is well known that with the elderly harder than with a baby. Only Moody, irritable dad will not put in the corner, not forced Continue reading