Nobody likes “spoiled” children are selfish, insensitive, demanding, capricious. But how to raise a child, lest he grow up to be? What actions can you spoil a baby?
When my children were still very young, I was often told that I’ll spoil children, because too caressing and comforting them when they cry. Fortunately, I never fell for that stuff.
You can’t spoil a baby with his love. Children just need love, food and fresh air. The problem is, what to call “love.”
When we give children all that they want in material terms, we don’t give them love. Often parents think that by inundating children’s toys or to satisfy their other desires, and show her your love. But therein lies the risk to raise a spoiled child.
There are three negative consequences of dabbling in the child in material terms:
This forms dependent behavior – things and fun substitute for the lack of emotion that is felt by the child. Too many adults are seeking to fill an emotional emptiness inside, buying unnecessary, in General, things or doing more extreme sports. If they have stress, instead find a cause, they try to remove it with the help of shopping, food, alcohol, etc. When we buy your Continue reading
A young mother, apparently, is serious about the education of his son. But the letter – almost all pedagogical errors, which are only. Let’s talk about them.
. It seems that there is no question: greed is hell is disgusting. Not accidentally the first children’s teaser in the yard: “the Greedy man-beef!”. Probably the first human law and morality begins: share, don’t grab, leave another – think about something else. And the first thing to teach a child to give mom. Let the Pope. Give little brother. Give the boy.
And the first confusion: does not! And the first test of parental ambition: when mom goes out with the boy to walk, and he in front of everyone took away a toy – Oh, how embarrassing! Actually, in my opinion, with many children’s shortcomings, we begin to fight not even because they are so sadden us, but because to save face. And that’s good. Sometimes the troubles begin where it lost all shame before the people.
It seems quite normal: a child will be older and Unlearning from greed. But who knows – some, when they grow up, the latter will give you and others in winter snow is not questioned. Some people whole life even suffer from their greed, though in a hurry to give what they ask, but the torment did not let the greed gnaws the soul.
Of course, we can wean the child Continue reading
Many parents underestimate the benefits of physical education classes with children from 2 to 5 years. When talking, mainly a few thoughts: “My child is so restless. Why with him to learn even more exercises, if it cannot be kept in place even 5 minutes?”, “How should I get the time and knowledge (I have a totally different profession), to exercise with your child. This should be done by a specialist!”
Yes, indeed, hard to find a child suffering from lack of exercise, but the task of parents – not to force a child to run and jump, and to instill a culture of movement, that is to send boundless energy in the right direction. During this period the work of the parents can be compared with the activity of a gardener, which forms in the future, a healthy tree. Although many movement skills are inherited. but there is something to pay attention: as a child landing after jumps – all foot or on the toes, whether correctly the child tumbles as it keeps your back and torso during the movement – this will depend on its future posture as the child breathes, and so on.
Second, the idea that physical activity with the child should engage a specialist that is true, but only Continue reading
I think that this info can be useful to someone, because now many are looking for lessons for their children
Some of them we visited, and in some places even had a chance to work, in most I’ve been at least “on intelligence”, or at least heard reviews of friends, so that infa “first hand” :).
Montessori, short-term stay groups, music, creativity, cubes Zaitseva and much more
This is our favorite place. Senior went there for Montessori year before kindergarten with one and a half years, then I worked there, and he visited potic all circles, is now the youngest goes. There is very nice
Developmental activities, the creativity, is the zoo – animals a lot, the kids loved it. The prices are very reasonable.
Great classes in clay modeling, you can sculpt and toddlers with moms. “Harmonious” baby – developmental classes for children 1 to 3 years, group adaptation to kindergarten and other classes.
Classes a great many in all directions for children from one and a half years. Sasha visited with great pleasure the work Continue reading
“Oh, this transitional age”,” many parents sigh and complain about incomprehensible to them the child’s behavior. Transitional or difficult is usually called the period of life of children from 12 to 16 years. This time, many moms and dads waiting with genuine anxiety. But is it really dangerous adolescence, maybe the excitement of adults greatly exaggerated? Let’s try to understand this question.
One against all
Psychologists believe adolescence crisis and even dangerous. It was at this time boys and girls grow dramatically, changing both externally and internally. During this period the child usually is a reassessment of values, he tries to understand his “I” in the world.
In addition, teenagers undergoing significant hormonal changes in the body, psychological state becomes unstable: the child’s mood changes dramatically, he for no apparent reason can yell at their parents or suddenly burst into tears…
Teens covered with one desire – in whatever began to look older. If earlier the child obediently fulfilled the instructions of their parents, now he is able to rebel against household responsibilities. The teenager may seem to infringe upon Continue reading