With surprise, resentment and fear to notice that her husband is cold to our child, who is four years. To me he is much better, warmer, than to him. There was a time when we dreamed together about the birth of a son. When it wasn’t, the husband excitedly told me how they will work together to do exercises, something to make, how he would teach his son to be a Man, etc. And now, when the child actually exists, the father does not communicate with the baby. Severely punished for the slightest offense, and I think (I’m afraid to admit it to yourself), experiencing the pleasure.
Sometimes mothers are laying the foundations for a “cool” relationship of the father to the baby. Very often, especially in the early days after birth, the mother, feeling the little one is incredibly close relationship, just don’t let father to him (“can You pass the germs from the street! You’re rude! You’re not holding that! You have stiff bristles! How clumsy you are! You smell like tobacco!”). Of course, this way you can discourage men all hunting to Potter with children, and he will quickly get used to the fact that his father needs help only in some cases.
In addition, often the woman all the attention was paid exclusively to the child. Continue reading
Education is a science. All parents want to see their child’s cultural, happy and educated. Therefore, they make every effort in education. Some parents believe that it is necessary to constantly scold or punish your baby, other unacceptable this form of communication with children. How to educate? Psychologists completed a number of research and made my conclusions.
An important factor parents – peace of mind
All moms and dads love their kids, however, can not boast of a calm attitude toward pampering your child. In the end, they start screaming, to take up the belt or scold your child. Just imagine that little man feels at the moment. He’s completely defenseless, he has the most native and close people – mom and dad. Suddenly they begin to hurt your baby. The outcome is unfavorable. Psychologists say that such education spoils in the first place the health of the baby. Such children manifest depression in adolescence often leads to suicide.
The child’s mind is disturbed by rough handling or humiliation of the individual. So the first thing parents need to be calm and balanced.
An example to follow
Every child tries to behave exactly like their parents. Before you can educate your child, pay attention Continue reading
It has long been known that human health depends on the weather. And although “nature has no bad weather”, most kids are sensitive to its changes. Recently the doctors have been studying how our body reacts to weather changes, because these reactions complicate the course of many diseases in children (as in adults). So, a new trend in Pediatrics — children’s etiopathology, or keratopathy. Now, assigning the treatment, experts are able to consider the sensitivity of the baby to weather changes.
And behind a window the rain, then snow
Reaction to change of weather experts call the reconstruction of the biological systems of the human organism in response to changes in atmospheric conditions: pressure, temperature, humidity. This restructuring may be accompanied by behavioral disorders, well-being, the reduction mechanisms of adaptation (adaptation). Normally, the body of a healthy baby should adapt to changes in the surrounding world, quickly and easily, without special inconvenience. With the exception of infants: they have no ready-made protection from the external environment, but only an innate ability to gradually adapt to natural light, high and low temperatures, humidity. At the same time, the skills of “taming” effects Continue reading