When you are expecting a baby, the desire to ask questions – how much it would weigh rebeccak to cope with the tantrums and hyperactivity of the child. what he would be like, what he will become when I grow up (Yes, Yes, many expectant mothers even ask myself this question) is as natural as frequent urination. And while some parents spend hours coming up with a name for the new baby, other all nine months of pregnancy suffer a single question: boy or girl?
Expectations and superstition
Regardless, we are ready to admit it or not, old wives ‘ tales and superstitions possess the minds of many, even the most enlightened future parents: if the stomach women “acute” and is directed forward, so she will have a boy. If the abdomen was globular, protruding and sides, she should prepare for the appearance of girls. It is also believed that if a woman during pregnancy, lost her looks, she’s a girl, but if bloomed, boy. Another popular superstition that if a pregnant drawn to sweet, so will be a girl, if cold and salty – boy. If the future Pope during pregnancy its second half gained a few pounds, then you need to prepare for the appearance of girls.
But, as is known to all parents, these cute superstitions as nothing more than an excuse to laugh and to brighten up the long months of waiting Continue reading
With surprise, resentment and fear to notice that her husband is cold to our child, who is four years. To me he is much better, warmer, than to him. There was a time when we dreamed together about the birth of a son. When it wasn’t, the husband excitedly told me how they will work together to do exercises, something to make, how he would teach his son to be a Man, etc. And now, when the child actually exists, the father does not communicate with the baby. Severely punished for the slightest offense, and I think (I’m afraid to admit it to yourself), experiencing the pleasure.
Sometimes mothers are laying the foundations for a “cool” relationship of the father to the baby. Very often, especially in the early days after birth, the mother, feeling the little one is incredibly close relationship, just don’t let father to him (“can You pass the germs from the street! You’re rude! You’re not holding that! You have stiff bristles! How clumsy you are! You smell like tobacco!”). Of course, this way you can discourage men all hunting to Potter with children, and he will quickly get used to the fact that his father needs help only in some cases.
In addition, often the woman all the attention was paid exclusively to the child. Continue reading
A young mother, apparently, is serious about the education of his son. But the letter – almost all pedagogical errors, which are only. Let’s talk about them.
. It seems that there is no question: greed is hell is disgusting. Not accidentally the first children’s teaser in the yard: “the Greedy man-beef!”. Probably the first human law and morality begins: share, don’t grab, leave another – think about something else. And the first thing to teach a child to give mom. Let the Pope. Give little brother. Give the boy.
And the first confusion: does not! And the first test of parental ambition: when mom goes out with the boy to walk, and he in front of everyone took away a toy – Oh, how embarrassing! Actually, in my opinion, with many children’s shortcomings, we begin to fight not even because they are so sadden us, but because to save face. And that’s good. Sometimes the troubles begin where it lost all shame before the people.
It seems quite normal: a child will be older and Unlearning from greed. But who knows – some, when they grow up, the latter will give you and others in winter snow is not questioned. Some people whole life even suffer from their greed, though in a hurry to give what they ask, but the torment did not let the greed gnaws the soul.
Of course, we can wean the child Continue reading