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Between her husband and child

With surprise, resentment and fear to notice that her husband is cold to our child, who is four years. To me he is much better, warmer, than to him. There was a time when we dreamed together about the birth of a son. When it wasn’t, the husband excitedly told me how they will work together to do exercises, something to make, how he would teach his son to be a Man, etc. And now, when the child actually exists, the father does not communicate with the baby. Severely punished for the slightest offense, and I think (I’m afraid to admit it to yourself), experiencing the pleasure.

Sometimes mothers are laying the foundations for a “cool” relationship of the father to the baby. Very often, especially in the early days after birth, the mother, feeling the little one is incredibly close relationship, just don’t let father to him (“can You pass the germs from the street! You’re rude! You’re not holding that! You have stiff bristles! How clumsy you are! You smell like tobacco!”). Of course, this way you can discourage men all hunting to Potter with children, and he will quickly get used to the fact that his father needs help only in some cases.

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How to get rid of the harmful habit of nail biting?

The nail-biting virtually deprives people of the opportunity to lead nails in proper form. Even if you just came from the nail salon with this habit, your new design nails will not last long. And people with this habit, often, do not go to beauty salons and little caring for nails, but are constantly pulled his hands to his mouth. Onychophagia, called the nail-biting doctors, has a number of side effects.

To eliminate the habit, it is important to understand why we bite your nails? Some universal reason, of course not. If we consider the issues in General terms, the children often adopt the habit from parents or adults with whom are often in the same room. And the adults are starting to bite my nails from lack of stress. In other words – it always shows the degree of nervous excitement.

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The most difficult to deal with addictions, including with gryzenia nails in children. Generally, bad habits do arise are formed closer to five or six years. By the time children are actively engaged with the world, they listen to what they say and how their parents and bring the habit to gnaw nails with the same kindergarten, from the caregiver. Unfortunately, Continue reading

Children’s greed: how to fight it

A young mother, apparently, is serious about the education of his son. But the letter – almost all pedagogical errors, which are only. Let’s talk about them.

. It seems that there is no question: greed is hell is disgusting. Not accidentally the first children’s teaser in the yard: “the Greedy man-beef!”. Probably the first human law and morality begins: share, don’t grab, leave another – think about something else. And the first thing to teach a child to give mom. Let the Pope. Give little brother. Give the boy.

And the first confusion: does not! And the first test of parental ambition: when mom goes out with the boy to walk, and he in front of everyone took away a toy – Oh, how embarrassing! Actually, in my opinion, with many children’s shortcomings, we begin to fight not even because they are so sadden us, but because to save face. And that’s good. Sometimes the troubles begin where it lost all shame before the people.

It seems quite normal: a child will be older and Unlearning from greed. But who knows – some, when they grow up, the latter will give you and others in winter snow is not questioned. Some people whole life even suffer from their greed, though in a hurry to give what they ask, but the torment did not let the greed gnaws the soul.

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How to get rid of the harmful habit of nail biting?
The nail-biting virtually deprives people of the opportunity to lead nails in proper form. Even if you just came from the nail salon with this habit, your new design nails…

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The Child and the computer
I Think many parents as I'm concerned-to put or not to put children at the computer? I have to admit was very confused as to what my four year-old does…

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Summer Vacation: what to do with the child, and where to find a playmate.
Summer — time, excellent in many respects. The heat don't need to put the piles of clothes before heading out. No children's classes and, therefore, irrelevant logistics associated with the…

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