A young mother, apparently, is serious about the education of his son. But the letter – almost all pedagogical errors, which are only. Let’s talk about them.
. It seems that there is no question: greed is hell is disgusting. Not accidentally the first children’s teaser in the yard: “the Greedy man-beef!”. Probably the first human law and morality begins: share, don’t grab, leave another – think about something else. And the first thing to teach a child to give mom. Let the Pope. Give little brother. Give the boy.
And the first confusion: does not! And the first test of parental ambition: when mom goes out with the boy to walk, and he in front of everyone took away a toy – Oh, how embarrassing! Actually, in my opinion, with many children’s shortcomings, we begin to fight not even because they are so sadden us, but because to save face. And that’s good. Sometimes the troubles begin where it lost all shame before the people.
It seems quite normal: a child will be older and Unlearning from greed. But who knows – some, when they grow up, the latter will give you and others in winter snow is not questioned. Some people whole life even suffer from their greed, though in a hurry to give what they ask, but the torment did not let the greed gnaws the soul.
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Often wrong upbringing of children in the family leads to very serious consequences, the child may withdraw into themselves, do poorly in school, not to fulfill the wishes of adults, moreover, he may appear neurotic deviations, until the disease is neurosis.
The sensibility of the child, the propensity to anxiety, helplessness, vulnerability, and vulnerability while controversial, is not always reasonable requirements of the parents, can easily hurt the child and lead to nervous breakdowns or total disobedience.
For full mental development children need encouragement and emotional support for adults, recognition in the family and among peers. In dealing with other many children lack the spontaneity, confidence, ease in relationships, vitality and mood — many of these things are brought up in the family.
The formation behavior of children in the family
The deviation of the traits and behavior of children is formed as a result of deviations in family relations and parenting. To change the personality of the parents, or one of the parents leads to the development of conflict situations in the family, and create problems in the education of children.
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We are talking about children from disadvantaged families, i.e. children, dysfunctional families, about what happens to the child if he is in a dysfunctional family. What is a dysfunctional family? One word to say impossible. Because everything is relative in this world – and the well-being and ill-being in relation to the child. But because children are all different: some are stronger, others are not, some are vulnerable, but responsive, and all other Trin-Trava, does not catch them. Began to be the talk about the child from a dysfunctional family – so to speak:
1). What are the dysfunctional family
2). What are children with their psychological and psychopathological problems that dwell
excessive regulation on family problems.
3). The impact of family problems on the child, prone to obostrennom response to various unfavorable factors.
4). As a sick child might disturb the peace of families, to call the parents of irritation, anger, impatience, etc., i.e. to turn in a dysfunctional family, and the latter in turn can further aggravate the mental condition of the child.
5). What needs – to be taken by the teachers to help the child, because it’s not his fault that he lives in a dysfunctional family.
Dysfunctional family for a child Continue reading