With surprise, resentment and fear to notice that her husband is cold to our child, who is four years. To me he is much better, warmer, than to him. There was a time when we dreamed together about the birth of a son. When it wasn’t, the husband excitedly told me how they will work together to do exercises, something to make, how he would teach his son to be a Man, etc. And now, when the child actually exists, the father does not communicate with the baby. Severely punished for the slightest offense, and I think (I’m afraid to admit it to yourself), experiencing the pleasure.
Sometimes mothers are laying the foundations for a “cool” relationship of the father to the baby. Very often, especially in the early days after birth, the mother, feeling the little one is incredibly close relationship, just don’t let father to him (“can You pass the germs from the street! You’re rude! You’re not holding that! You have stiff bristles! How clumsy you are! You smell like tobacco!”). Of course, this way you can discourage men all hunting to Potter with children, and he will quickly get used to the fact that his father needs help only in some cases.
In addition, often the woman all the attention was paid exclusively to the child. Continue reading
I think that this info can be useful to someone, because now many are looking for lessons for their children
Some of them we visited, and in some places even had a chance to work, in most I’ve been at least “on intelligence”, or at least heard reviews of friends, so that infa “first hand” :).
Montessori, short-term stay groups, music, creativity, cubes Zaitseva and much more
This is our favorite place. Senior went there for Montessori year before kindergarten with one and a half years, then I worked there, and he visited potic all circles, is now the youngest goes. There is very nice
Developmental activities, the creativity, is the zoo – animals a lot, the kids loved it. The prices are very reasonable.
Great classes in clay modeling, you can sculpt and toddlers with moms. “Harmonious” baby – developmental classes for children 1 to 3 years, group adaptation to kindergarten and other classes.
Classes a great many in all directions for children from one and a half years. Sasha visited with great pleasure the work Continue reading
Children’s fears are observed every child of preschool age, which is fine, because the absence of fear would threaten the very life of the child: fear, like pain, warns of danger.
Developing and extending the life experience, the child is constantly faced with new phenomena and situations that at first alarming and frightening. Of course, fears of this kind are eventually overcome. “I’m scared, but I’m not afraid,” say the preschoolers.
But if the child feels fear, then, of course, this can disrupt the normal rhythm of life of the child, limits of cognition of reality, reduce and even paralyze the natural curiosity of children of preschool age. But the fears in children occur most often when a frightening, unknown, unknown happens to the child without support from the adult, i.e., coincides with a feeling of helplessness and insecurity. Hardly the child is feeling under the protection of the mother, formed a pathological fear of dogs in response to the warning that the dog might bite. But the same words spoken with irritation mother during the conflict with the child or said a stranger in the absence of loved ones (and in that and in other case, the child feels alone and vulnerable), can initiate a neurotic fears.
Often children’s fears are raised by the parents. Continue reading