1 . The impact on the teenager can only be mediated. Needed to change tactics on the part of adult it is necessary to keep the overall pattern of relationship with the child despite the fact that the parent is the child’s age changes. If the parent is not willing to change tactics fail against a child, a psychologist further useless. Prohibitions on the juvenile act!
Examples of the indirect impact:” …I heard somewhere that this helps, I want to try..” or” … I wouldn’t want to do that, but think about it, try it yourself…”.
2 . The circle shapes the identity of the teenager . You must know your child’s friends and know their effects! It is important to choose the activity. Non slip “good” children to friends — not yet changed the scope of activities. Not forbid friendship with ” bad” children, invite them home, try to learn them. Relatively poor understanding!
Remember, a teenager in the foreground – the emotions. The teenager does not have to fear and avoid at home! Be deprived of a teenager even “ bad” friends ( you can just muttering under his breath — ” well, that at least you do not make”).
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When you are expecting a baby, the desire to ask questions – how much it would weigh rebeccak to cope with the tantrums and hyperactivity of the child. what he would be like, what he will become when I grow up (Yes, Yes, many expectant mothers even ask myself this question) is as natural as frequent urination. And while some parents spend hours coming up with a name for the new baby, other all nine months of pregnancy suffer a single question: boy or girl?
Expectations and superstition
Regardless, we are ready to admit it or not, old wives ‘ tales and superstitions possess the minds of many, even the most enlightened future parents: if the stomach women “acute” and is directed forward, so she will have a boy. If the abdomen was globular, protruding and sides, she should prepare for the appearance of girls. It is also believed that if a woman during pregnancy, lost her looks, she’s a girl, but if bloomed, boy. Another popular superstition that if a pregnant drawn to sweet, so will be a girl, if cold and salty – boy. If the future Pope during pregnancy its second half gained a few pounds, then you need to prepare for the appearance of girls.
But, as is known to all parents, these cute superstitions as nothing more than an excuse to laugh and to brighten up the long months of waiting Continue reading
The nail-biting virtually deprives people of the opportunity to lead nails in proper form. Even if you just came from the nail salon with this habit, your new design nails will not last long. And people with this habit, often, do not go to beauty salons and little caring for nails, but are constantly pulled his hands to his mouth. Onychophagia, called the nail-biting doctors, has a number of side effects.
To eliminate the habit, it is important to understand why we bite your nails? Some universal reason, of course not. If we consider the issues in General terms, the children often adopt the habit from parents or adults with whom are often in the same room. And the adults are starting to bite my nails from lack of stress. In other words – it always shows the degree of nervous excitement.
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The most difficult to deal with addictions, including with gryzenia nails in children. Generally, bad habits do arise are formed closer to five or six years. By the time children are actively engaged with the world, they listen to what they say and how their parents and bring the habit to gnaw nails with the same kindergarten, from the caregiver. Unfortunately, Continue reading