Children – obedience to parents; parents – nerazjasnenie Chad. It is obvious that the Apostle is not all and this determines, as in the previous, and only addresses what most upset the good relations between parents and children. Parents naturally with all the soul neglect the children and the children with our whole soul are devoted parents.
Now the feelings based, their mutual relations are flowing peacefully and not violated, while those feelings are valid. While children are obedient, parents of peace to them and are not worry about them; but, as soon as will begin to be disobedience, parental eyes already Naumovna look at children and their heart nemirno to them. It will not be slow to affect the heart of children, and the disorder originated.
Still, while parents are children in the spirit of love, the children rest on their love, and that move, whatever forbade parents, all is accepted with a warm willingness, confidence that orders parents are made solely for their benefit.
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A young mother, apparently, is serious about the education of his son. But the letter – almost all pedagogical errors, which are only. Let’s talk about them.
. It seems that there is no question: greed is hell is disgusting. Not accidentally the first children’s teaser in the yard: “the Greedy man-beef!”. Probably the first human law and morality begins: share, don’t grab, leave another – think about something else. And the first thing to teach a child to give mom. Let the Pope. Give little brother. Give the boy.
And the first confusion: does not! And the first test of parental ambition: when mom goes out with the boy to walk, and he in front of everyone took away a toy – Oh, how embarrassing! Actually, in my opinion, with many children’s shortcomings, we begin to fight not even because they are so sadden us, but because to save face. And that’s good. Sometimes the troubles begin where it lost all shame before the people.
It seems quite normal: a child will be older and Unlearning from greed. But who knows – some, when they grow up, the latter will give you and others in winter snow is not questioned. Some people whole life even suffer from their greed, though in a hurry to give what they ask, but the torment did not let the greed gnaws the soul.
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“Oh, this transitional age”,” many parents sigh and complain about incomprehensible to them the child’s behavior. Transitional or difficult is usually called the period of life of children from 12 to 16 years. This time, many moms and dads waiting with genuine anxiety. But is it really dangerous adolescence, maybe the excitement of adults greatly exaggerated? Let’s try to understand this question.
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Psychologists believe adolescence crisis and even dangerous. It was at this time boys and girls grow dramatically, changing both externally and internally. During this period the child usually is a reassessment of values, he tries to understand his “I” in the world.
In addition, teenagers undergoing significant hormonal changes in the body, psychological state becomes unstable: the child’s mood changes dramatically, he for no apparent reason can yell at their parents or suddenly burst into tears…
Teens covered with one desire – in whatever began to look older. If earlier the child obediently fulfilled the instructions of their parents, now he is able to rebel against household responsibilities. The teenager may seem to infringe upon Continue reading