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Recommendations – Psychologist parents Parents of a teenager

1 . The impact on the teenager can only be mediated. Needed to change tactics on the part of adult it is necessary to keep the overall pattern of relationship with the child despite the fact that the parent is the child’s age changes. If the parent is not willing to change tactics fail against a child, a psychologist further useless. Prohibitions on the juvenile act!

Examples of the indirect impact:” …I heard somewhere that this helps, I want to try..” or” … I wouldn’t want to do that, but think about it, try it yourself…”.

2 . The circle shapes the identity of the teenager . You must know your child’s friends and know their effects! It is important to choose the activity. Non slip “good” children to friends — not yet changed the scope of activities. Not forbid friendship with ” bad” children, invite them home, try to learn them. Relatively poor understanding!

Remember, a teenager in the foreground – the emotions. The teenager does not have to fear and avoid at home! Be deprived of a teenager even “ bad” friends ( you can just muttering under his breath — ” well, that at least you do not make”).

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How to build relationships with your teenage child?

“Oh, this transitional age”,” many parents sigh and complain about incomprehensible to them the child’s behavior. Transitional or difficult is usually called the period of life of children from 12 to 16 years. This time, many moms and dads waiting with genuine anxiety. But is it really dangerous adolescence, maybe the excitement of adults greatly exaggerated? Let’s try to understand this question.

One against all

Psychologists believe adolescence crisis and even dangerous. It was at this time boys and girls grow dramatically, changing both externally and internally. During this period the child usually is a reassessment of values, he tries to understand his “I” in the world.

In addition, teenagers undergoing significant hormonal changes in the body, psychological state becomes unstable: the child’s mood changes dramatically, he for no apparent reason can yell at their parents or suddenly burst into tears…

Teens covered with one desire – in whatever began to look older. If earlier the child obediently fulfilled the instructions of their parents, now he is able to rebel against household responsibilities. The teenager may seem to infringe upon Continue reading

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