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Children’s greed: how to fight it

A young mother, apparently, is serious about the education of his son. But the letter – almost all pedagogical errors, which are only. Let’s talk about them.

. It seems that there is no question: greed is hell is disgusting. Not accidentally the first children’s teaser in the yard: “the Greedy man-beef!”. Probably the first human law and morality begins: share, don’t grab, leave another – think about something else. And the first thing to teach a child to give mom. Let the Pope. Give little brother. Give the boy.

And the first confusion: does not! And the first test of parental ambition: when mom goes out with the boy to walk, and he in front of everyone took away a toy – Oh, how embarrassing! Actually, in my opinion, with many children’s shortcomings, we begin to fight not even because they are so sadden us, but because to save face. And that’s good. Sometimes the troubles begin where it lost all shame before the people.

It seems quite normal: a child will be older and Unlearning from greed. But who knows – some, when they grow up, the latter will give you and others in winter snow is not questioned. Some people whole life even suffer from their greed, though in a hurry to give what they ask, but the torment did not let the greed gnaws the soul.

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How to build relationships with your teenage child?

“Oh, this transitional age”,” many parents sigh and complain about incomprehensible to them the child’s behavior. Transitional or difficult is usually called the period of life of children from 12 to 16 years. This time, many moms and dads waiting with genuine anxiety. But is it really dangerous adolescence, maybe the excitement of adults greatly exaggerated? Let’s try to understand this question.

One against all

Psychologists believe adolescence crisis and even dangerous. It was at this time boys and girls grow dramatically, changing both externally and internally. During this period the child usually is a reassessment of values, he tries to understand his “I” in the world.

In addition, teenagers undergoing significant hormonal changes in the body, psychological state becomes unstable: the child’s mood changes dramatically, he for no apparent reason can yell at their parents or suddenly burst into tears…

Teens covered with one desire – in whatever began to look older. If earlier the child obediently fulfilled the instructions of their parents, now he is able to rebel against household responsibilities. The teenager may seem to infringe upon Continue reading

Program of TRIZ as a science of creative thinking

My child ” methods of development of children ” the application of TRIZ as a science of creative thinking

In our days all often hear the phrase “creative development of children”. In sale you can find many books with such phrases, but, unfortunately, modern parents often insufficient time to re-read the mountains of pedagogical literature in search of best practices for their child. Therefore, more and more parents are choosing to study on the methodology of TRIZ.

Program “tips” — the theory of inventive problem solving, authored by Henry Saulovich Altshuller. This is a program that will teach your children not to think stereotypically, stereotypical. It teaches to think dialectically, systemically and functionally. Long classes in this program gives children such important qualities as flexibility of thought, his wide range, originality, etc.

As you already know, the leading activity in preschool children is a game. It is in the game and implemented a technology TRIZ. Playing, the child develops creative thinking, learning to create something uniquely new, and not to act on the template.

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Between her husband and child
With surprise, resentment and fear to notice that her husband is cold to our child, who is four years. To me he is much better, warmer, than to him. There…

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Tips for parents on talking to their child.
In recent decades, psychologists have made a number of remarkable discoveries. One of them is about the importance of communication style with the child to develop his or her personality.…

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If the child does not respond to treatment and requests
Last week in the newsletter I asked the question: “What is troubling you the most in the child, myself, my family?” After that, I was threatened by an avalanche of…

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