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Recommendations – Psychologist parents Parents of a teenager

1 . The impact on the teenager can only be mediated. Needed to change tactics on the part of adult it is necessary to keep the overall pattern of relationship with the child despite the fact that the parent is the child’s age changes. If the parent is not willing to change tactics fail against a child, a psychologist further useless. Prohibitions on the juvenile act!

Examples of the indirect impact:” …I heard somewhere that this helps, I want to try..” or” … I wouldn’t want to do that, but think about it, try it yourself…”.

2 . The circle shapes the identity of the teenager . You must know your child’s friends and know their effects! It is important to choose the activity. Non slip “good” children to friends — not yet changed the scope of activities. Not forbid friendship with ” bad” children, invite them home, try to learn them. Relatively poor understanding!

Remember, a teenager in the foreground – the emotions. The teenager does not have to fear and avoid at home! Be deprived of a teenager even “ bad” friends ( you can just muttering under his breath — ” well, that at least you do not make”).

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The Education of boys and girls

When you are expecting a baby, the desire to ask questions – how much it would weigh rebeccak to cope with the tantrums and hyperactivity of the child. what he would be like, what he will become when I grow up (Yes, Yes, many expectant mothers even ask myself this question) is as natural as frequent urination. And while some parents spend hours coming up with a name for the new baby, other all nine months of pregnancy suffer a single question: boy or girl?

Expectations and superstition

Regardless, we are ready to admit it or not, old wives ‘ tales and superstitions possess the minds of many, even the most enlightened future parents: if the stomach women “acute” and is directed forward, so she will have a boy. If the abdomen was globular, protruding and sides, she should prepare for the appearance of girls. It is also believed that if a woman during pregnancy, lost her looks, she’s a girl, but if bloomed, boy. Another popular superstition that if a pregnant drawn to sweet, so will be a girl, if cold and salty – boy. If the future Pope during pregnancy its second half gained a few pounds, then you need to prepare for the appearance of girls.

But, as is known to all parents, these cute superstitions as nothing more than an excuse to laugh and to brighten up the long months of waiting Continue reading

Do I Have to spoil their children?

Nobody likes “spoiled” children are selfish, insensitive, demanding, capricious. But how to raise a child, lest he grow up to be? What actions can you spoil a baby?

When my children were still very young, I was often told that I’ll spoil children, because too caressing and comforting them when they cry. Fortunately, I never fell for that stuff.

You can’t spoil a baby with his love. Children just need love, food and fresh air. The problem is, what to call “love.”

When we give children all that they want in material terms, we don’t give them love. Often parents think that by inundating children’s toys or to satisfy their other desires, and show her your love. But therein lies the risk to raise a spoiled child.

There are three negative consequences of dabbling in the child in material terms:

This forms dependent behavior – things and fun substitute for the lack of emotion that is felt by the child. Too many adults are seeking to fill an emotional emptiness inside, buying unnecessary, in General, things or doing more extreme sports. If they have stress, instead find a cause, they try to remove it with the help of shopping, food, alcohol, etc. When we buy your Continue reading

What to do with the child during the summer?
The summer comes, and with the first warm and Sunny days I want to throw away everything and relax, relax, enjoying all the opportunities that gives us time for the…

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Kids and video games
Who does not know this picture: mom, tired lying on the sofa in a favorite book in hand, and the child at the time literally is totally engrossed in watching…

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If the child does not respond to treatment and requests
Last week in the newsletter I asked the question: “What is troubling you the most in the child, myself, my family?” After that, I was threatened by an avalanche of…

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