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Children – obedience to parents

Children – obedience to parents; parents – nerazjasnenie Chad. It is obvious that the Apostle is not all and this determines, as in the previous, and only addresses what most upset the good relations between parents and children. Parents naturally with all the soul neglect the children and the children with our whole soul are devoted parents.

Now the feelings based, their mutual relations are flowing peacefully and not violated, while those feelings are valid. While children are obedient, parents of peace to them and are not worry about them; but, as soon as will begin to be disobedience, parental eyes already Naumovna look at children and their heart nemirno to them. It will not be slow to affect the heart of children, and the disorder originated.

Still, while parents are children in the spirit of love, the children rest on their love, and that move, whatever forbade parents, all is accepted with a warm willingness, confidence that orders parents are made solely for their benefit.

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Between her husband and child

With surprise, resentment and fear to notice that her husband is cold to our child, who is four years. To me he is much better, warmer, than to him. There was a time when we dreamed together about the birth of a son. When it wasn’t, the husband excitedly told me how they will work together to do exercises, something to make, how he would teach his son to be a Man, etc. And now, when the child actually exists, the father does not communicate with the baby. Severely punished for the slightest offense, and I think (I’m afraid to admit it to yourself), experiencing the pleasure.

Sometimes mothers are laying the foundations for a “cool” relationship of the father to the baby. Very often, especially in the early days after birth, the mother, feeling the little one is incredibly close relationship, just don’t let father to him (“can You pass the germs from the street! You’re rude! You’re not holding that! You have stiff bristles! How clumsy you are! You smell like tobacco!”). Of course, this way you can discourage men all hunting to Potter with children, and he will quickly get used to the fact that his father needs help only in some cases.

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Children’s greed: how to fight it

A young mother, apparently, is serious about the education of his son. But the letter – almost all pedagogical errors, which are only. Let’s talk about them.

. It seems that there is no question: greed is hell is disgusting. Not accidentally the first children’s teaser in the yard: “the Greedy man-beef!”. Probably the first human law and morality begins: share, don’t grab, leave another – think about something else. And the first thing to teach a child to give mom. Let the Pope. Give little brother. Give the boy.

And the first confusion: does not! And the first test of parental ambition: when mom goes out with the boy to walk, and he in front of everyone took away a toy – Oh, how embarrassing! Actually, in my opinion, with many children’s shortcomings, we begin to fight not even because they are so sadden us, but because to save face. And that’s good. Sometimes the troubles begin where it lost all shame before the people.

It seems quite normal: a child will be older and Unlearning from greed. But who knows – some, when they grow up, the latter will give you and others in winter snow is not questioned. Some people whole life even suffer from their greed, though in a hurry to give what they ask, but the torment did not let the greed gnaws the soul.

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