Children’s fears are observed every child of preschool age, which is fine, because the absence of fear would threaten the very life of the child: fear, like pain, warns of danger.
Developing and extending the life experience, the child is constantly faced with new phenomena and situations that at first alarming and frightening. Of course, fears of this kind are eventually overcome. “I’m scared, but I’m not afraid,” say the preschoolers.
But if the child feels fear, then, of course, this can disrupt the normal rhythm of life of the child, limits of cognition of reality, reduce and even paralyze the natural curiosity of children of preschool age. But the fears in children occur most often when a frightening, unknown, unknown happens to the child without support from the adult, i.e., coincides with a feeling of helplessness and insecurity. Hardly the child is feeling under the protection of the mother, formed a pathological fear of dogs in response to the warning that the dog might bite. But the same words spoken with irritation mother during the conflict with the child or said a stranger in the absence of loved ones (and in that and in other case, the child feels alone and vulnerable), can initiate a neurotic fears.
Often children’s fears are raised by the parents. Continue reading
Began to suspect that your child engaged in theft? Today we talk about why they steal children . We consider several possible reasons why children begin to engage in this shameful occupation. After reading our information and tips to it, you can assist ensure that the child is no longer stealing.
Let’s start with young children, the fact that young children – aged 2 to 4 years, are not yet fully formed, they do not understand the difference between my stuff and other people’s. Therefore among this age group, child stealing is a very frequent phenomenon.
But “stealing” — says it’s too loud, is it possible to call a thief a child who took a toy his coeval only in good intentions – to play. It is in good intentions, because it was said that children at this age are not aware in this regard and simply don’t understand the difference. The toy is just a toy, an object for entertainment or learning something new.
As assist ensure that the child did not take other people’s toys at this age? It’s pretty simple, no special conversations don’t need to start with the child, punish him, and the like. The child’s parents, must keep walking the tight control that the baby was not in distress and has not taken Continue reading
Presents a list of rules for moms who have sons, is not unequivocal and final, you can agree or disagree. But it was written to inspire moms who love their kids who are tired, who are proud of who just want to support their children in life. Mom — the woman in the life of his son, his first teacher, his assistant and adviser throughout life.
Further tips for moms of sons:
1. To teach him how to verbalize their emotions. He can scream with frustration or shame, he could cry with fear and excitement. Let all these symptoms emotions will remain, but it is important to speak with his son about what other people feel too similar and need to be able to talk, telling about their problems.
2. To be the main cheerleader. Shouting the loudest in the stands of the stadium where he plays. Sing songs nailed them with friends group. Show everyone the photos from his childhood or prom. To paint in his blog, he first sat down on the potty or received a long-awaited five geography in ninth grade. There is no doubt that the son of any age will blush from such manifestations of maternal love, he will be embarrassed and ask my mother to stop and never to do. But he will know that in this world there is a person, even one who is always and no matter what was hurting Continue reading