With surprise, resentment and fear to notice that her husband is cold to our child, who is four years. To me he is much better, warmer, than to him. There was a time when we dreamed together about the birth of a son. When it wasn’t, the husband excitedly told me how they will work together to do exercises, something to make, how he would teach his son to be a Man, etc. And now, when the child actually exists, the father does not communicate with the baby. Severely punished for the slightest offense, and I think (I’m afraid to admit it to yourself), experiencing the pleasure.
Sometimes mothers are laying the foundations for a “cool” relationship of the father to the baby. Very often, especially in the early days after birth, the mother, feeling the little one is incredibly close relationship, just don’t let father to him (“can You pass the germs from the street! You’re rude! You’re not holding that! You have stiff bristles! How clumsy you are! You smell like tobacco!”). Of course, this way you can discourage men all hunting to Potter with children, and he will quickly get used to the fact that his father needs help only in some cases.
In addition, often the woman all the attention was paid exclusively to the child. Continue reading
Why attracts others? Psychology of child stealing
The child finds it difficult to understand why the teacher would permit him to take home all of what he did today — drawings or something Kalendae them from clay, and pencils, which he drew, or the clay will not allow it.
Growing up, the child learns to understand the difference between personal and public. Just little need to explain it all the time. And, not just explain, but to deny without asking to borrow someone else’s.
When the child is all right, he’s healthy — it’s “age” theft is only a small episode in your life in the future, disappearing once and for all.
But if the child has some problems that it cannot resolve on their own, the kid chooses the theft as a way to distract him from his personal problems. This is usually the theft is not “for show”, and “secretly”. Such a theft is generally peculiar guys, who are soon to go to school. Growing up, they strive to find new friends. But it happens that they don’t find those peers that need their feelings and friendship, and as a result feel lonely and useless. Therefore, in order to draw attention to themselves, they don’t just steal, and generously bestowed stolen, not even using it.
Feeling lack of attention and love, the child may steal Continue reading
We are talking about children from disadvantaged families, i.e. children, dysfunctional families, about what happens to the child if he is in a dysfunctional family. What is a dysfunctional family? One word to say impossible. Because everything is relative in this world – and the well-being and ill-being in relation to the child. But because children are all different: some are stronger, others are not, some are vulnerable, but responsive, and all other Trin-Trava, does not catch them. Began to be the talk about the child from a dysfunctional family – so to speak:
1). What are the dysfunctional family
2). What are children with their psychological and psychopathological problems that dwell
excessive regulation on family problems.
3). The impact of family problems on the child, prone to obostrennom response to various unfavorable factors.
4). As a sick child might disturb the peace of families, to call the parents of irritation, anger, impatience, etc., i.e. to turn in a dysfunctional family, and the latter in turn can further aggravate the mental condition of the child.
5). What needs – to be taken by the teachers to help the child, because it’s not his fault that he lives in a dysfunctional family.
Dysfunctional family for a child Continue reading