divided

Between her husband and child

With surprise, resentment and fear to notice that her husband is cold to our child, who is four years. To me he is much better, warmer, than to him. There was a time when we dreamed together about the birth of a son. When it wasn’t, the husband excitedly told me how they will work together to do exercises, something to make, how he would teach his son to be a Man, etc. And now, when the child actually exists, the father does not communicate with the baby. Severely punished for the slightest offense, and I think (I’m afraid to admit it to yourself), experiencing the pleasure.

Sometimes mothers are laying the foundations for a “cool” relationship of the father to the baby. Very often, especially in the early days after birth, the mother, feeling the little one is incredibly close relationship, just don’t let father to him (“can You pass the germs from the street! You’re rude! You’re not holding that! You have stiff bristles! How clumsy you are! You smell like tobacco!”). Of course, this way you can discourage men all hunting to Potter with children, and he will quickly get used to the fact that his father needs help only in some cases.

In addition, often the woman all the attention was paid exclusively to the child. Continue reading

Older and younger children: what between them is friendship or enmity?

I wonder why is it that brothers and sisters should love each other? Not to quarrel and to live peacefully. Why when a stranger something unpleasant, you can stop to chat, but if it’s your brother or sister, you must love him? Is it possible to love out of debt?

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Birth to a second child, parents should understand that it is impossible to force the first-born to love born baby brother or sister. But in their power to educate children so that the spark of mutual love, devotion and respect herself lit up in the children’s hearts. Often give birth to her second child thinking that the firstborn was not alone, native blood people supported each other along the difficult path of life. And how can they be surprised and upset if you see that this love is not. Adults should understand that children are not obliged that each of their children ’ s unique personality, and to help them love each other can only be cultivating this same brotherly love.

Probably almost all faced with the fact that after the birth of her second child, the firstborn son gets jealous of the baby to the parents and tries to gain their attention. Sometimes the mother feels the eldest child does everything Continue reading

The Child and the computer

I Think many parents as I’m concerned-to put or not to put children at the computer?

I have to admit was very confused as to what my four year-old does not want to play childish computer

After all it is clear that in this age without a computer-anywhere and the child should be at home.

The main factors harmful influence of the computer on the human body are:

1. The load on the eyes.

2. Cramped posture.

3. Radiation.

4. Impact on the psyche.

Given these factors, what can be done and how to assist the child in the most secure environment in interaction with a computer

that’s a plus

The majority of children’s computer games stimulate brain activity of the child, develop coordination, motor skills, and improve language skills, and thus create a strong bond between child and parents, as children computer game can be a enjoyable family activity. The development of intellectual abilities of the child, of course, very important, but equally important for healthy emotional growth is love and physical activity.

Teachers are advised to use computer games as a fun pastime and strengthen family ties between children and parents, and create from this tradition, as bedtime stories, which still Continue reading

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