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Between her husband and child

With surprise, resentment and fear to notice that her husband is cold to our child, who is four years. To me he is much better, warmer, than to him. There was a time when we dreamed together about the birth of a son. When it wasn’t, the husband excitedly told me how they will work together to do exercises, something to make, how he would teach his son to be a Man, etc. And now, when the child actually exists, the father does not communicate with the baby. Severely punished for the slightest offense, and I think (I’m afraid to admit it to yourself), experiencing the pleasure.

Sometimes mothers are laying the foundations for a “cool” relationship of the father to the baby. Very often, especially in the early days after birth, the mother, feeling the little one is incredibly close relationship, just don’t let father to him (“can You pass the germs from the street! You’re rude! You’re not holding that! You have stiff bristles! How clumsy you are! You smell like tobacco!”). Of course, this way you can discourage men all hunting to Potter with children, and he will quickly get used to the fact that his father needs help only in some cases.

In addition, often the woman all the attention was paid exclusively to the child. Continue reading

Children’s greed: how to fight it

A young mother, apparently, is serious about the education of his son. But the letter – almost all pedagogical errors, which are only. Let’s talk about them.

. It seems that there is no question: greed is hell is disgusting. Not accidentally the first children’s teaser in the yard: “the Greedy man-beef!”. Probably the first human law and morality begins: share, don’t grab, leave another – think about something else. And the first thing to teach a child to give mom. Let the Pope. Give little brother. Give the boy.

And the first confusion: does not! And the first test of parental ambition: when mom goes out with the boy to walk, and he in front of everyone took away a toy – Oh, how embarrassing! Actually, in my opinion, with many children’s shortcomings, we begin to fight not even because they are so sadden us, but because to save face. And that’s good. Sometimes the troubles begin where it lost all shame before the people.

It seems quite normal: a child will be older and Unlearning from greed. But who knows – some, when they grow up, the latter will give you and others in winter snow is not questioned. Some people whole life even suffer from their greed, though in a hurry to give what they ask, but the torment did not let the greed gnaws the soul.

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Child 10 months of not sleeping well at night

Healthy baby’s sleep is important for normal development. If your baby is not sleeping at night, you need to find out the reason and to take any measures that the night was quiet and calm.

Children begin to dream while you are still in your mother’s womb with the twenty-fifth week of pregnancy, it is scientifically proven. Children’s sleep develops the mind and other senses. If the child does not sleep, it affects his mental and physical development. Many moms wonder why her baby has trouble sleeping at night at the age of one year, as to understand the cause of poor sleep. ‘ll look at the example of a bad dream ten-month baby.

Why the child is not sleeping?

Children who are born to sleep at night, and did not Wake up, are exceptions. Babies do not sleep as adults, their sleep is designed differently. Mode at this age are usually not installed yet.

But there are also several reasons why the child does not sleep at night at 10 months:

Maybe a baby suffers from colic, if the mother at 10 months of feeding your baby and drink lots of cow milk;

Abdominal pain can disrupt sleep if the infant formulas are poorly Continue reading

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