With surprise, resentment and fear to notice that her husband is cold to our child, who is four years. To me he is much better, warmer, than to him. There was a time when we dreamed together about the birth of a son. When it wasn’t, the husband excitedly told me how they will work together to do exercises, something to make, how he would teach his son to be a Man, etc. And now, when the child actually exists, the father does not communicate with the baby. Severely punished for the slightest offense, and I think (I’m afraid to admit it to yourself), experiencing the pleasure.
Sometimes mothers are laying the foundations for a “cool” relationship of the father to the baby. Very often, especially in the early days after birth, the mother, feeling the little one is incredibly close relationship, just don’t let father to him (“can You pass the germs from the street! You’re rude! You’re not holding that! You have stiff bristles! How clumsy you are! You smell like tobacco!”). Of course, this way you can discourage men all hunting to Potter with children, and he will quickly get used to the fact that his father needs help only in some cases.
In addition, often the woman all the attention was paid exclusively to the child. Continue reading
The nail-biting virtually deprives people of the opportunity to lead nails in proper form. Even if you just came from the nail salon with this habit, your new design nails will not last long. And people with this habit, often, do not go to beauty salons and little caring for nails, but are constantly pulled his hands to his mouth. Onychophagia, called the nail-biting doctors, has a number of side effects.
To eliminate the habit, it is important to understand why we bite your nails? Some universal reason, of course not. If we consider the issues in General terms, the children often adopt the habit from parents or adults with whom are often in the same room. And the adults are starting to bite my nails from lack of stress. In other words – it always shows the degree of nervous excitement.
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The most difficult to deal with addictions, including with gryzenia nails in children. Generally, bad habits do arise are formed closer to five or six years. By the time children are actively engaged with the world, they listen to what they say and how their parents and bring the habit to gnaw nails with the same kindergarten, from the caregiver. Unfortunately, Continue reading
Nobody likes “spoiled” children are selfish, insensitive, demanding, capricious. But how to raise a child, lest he grow up to be? What actions can you spoil a baby?
When my children were still very young, I was often told that I’ll spoil children, because too caressing and comforting them when they cry. Fortunately, I never fell for that stuff.
You can’t spoil a baby with his love. Children just need love, food and fresh air. The problem is, what to call “love.”
When we give children all that they want in material terms, we don’t give them love. Often parents think that by inundating children’s toys or to satisfy their other desires, and show her your love. But therein lies the risk to raise a spoiled child.
There are three negative consequences of dabbling in the child in material terms:
This forms dependent behavior – things and fun substitute for the lack of emotion that is felt by the child. Too many adults are seeking to fill an emotional emptiness inside, buying unnecessary, in General, things or doing more extreme sports. If they have stress, instead find a cause, they try to remove it with the help of shopping, food, alcohol, etc. When we buy your Continue reading