With surprise, resentment and fear to notice that her husband is cold to our child, who is four years. To me he is much better, warmer, than to him. There was a time when we dreamed together about the birth of a son. When it wasn’t, the husband excitedly told me how they will work together to do exercises, something to make, how he would teach his son to be a Man, etc. And now, when the child actually exists, the father does not communicate with the baby. Severely punished for the slightest offense, and I think (I’m afraid to admit it to yourself), experiencing the pleasure.
Sometimes mothers are laying the foundations for a “cool” relationship of the father to the baby. Very often, especially in the early days after birth, the mother, feeling the little one is incredibly close relationship, just don’t let father to him (“can You pass the germs from the street! You’re rude! You’re not holding that! You have stiff bristles! How clumsy you are! You smell like tobacco!”). Of course, this way you can discourage men all hunting to Potter with children, and he will quickly get used to the fact that his father needs help only in some cases.
In addition, often the woman all the attention was paid exclusively to the child. Continue reading
The nail-biting virtually deprives people of the opportunity to lead nails in proper form. Even if you just came from the nail salon with this habit, your new design nails will not last long. And people with this habit, often, do not go to beauty salons and little caring for nails, but are constantly pulled his hands to his mouth. Onychophagia, called the nail-biting doctors, has a number of side effects.
To eliminate the habit, it is important to understand why we bite your nails? Some universal reason, of course not. If we consider the issues in General terms, the children often adopt the habit from parents or adults with whom are often in the same room. And the adults are starting to bite my nails from lack of stress. In other words – it always shows the degree of nervous excitement.
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The most difficult to deal with addictions, including with gryzenia nails in children. Generally, bad habits do arise are formed closer to five or six years. By the time children are actively engaged with the world, they listen to what they say and how their parents and bring the habit to gnaw nails with the same kindergarten, from the caregiver. Unfortunately, Continue reading
Education is a science. All parents want to see their child’s cultural, happy and educated. Therefore, they make every effort in education. Some parents believe that it is necessary to constantly scold or punish your baby, other unacceptable this form of communication with children. How to educate? Psychologists completed a number of research and made my conclusions.
An important factor parents – peace of mind
All moms and dads love their kids, however, can not boast of a calm attitude toward pampering your child. In the end, they start screaming, to take up the belt or scold your child. Just imagine that little man feels at the moment. He’s completely defenseless, he has the most native and close people – mom and dad. Suddenly they begin to hurt your baby. The outcome is unfavorable. Psychologists say that such education spoils in the first place the health of the baby. Such children manifest depression in adolescence often leads to suicide.
The child’s mind is disturbed by rough handling or humiliation of the individual. So the first thing parents need to be calm and balanced.
An example to follow
Every child tries to behave exactly like their parents. Before you can educate your child, pay attention Continue reading