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The Education of boys and girls

When you are expecting a baby, the desire to ask questions – how much it would weigh rebeccak to cope with the tantrums and hyperactivity of the child. what he would be like, what he will become when I grow up (Yes, Yes, many expectant mothers even ask myself this question) is as natural as frequent urination. And while some parents spend hours coming up with a name for the new baby, other all nine months of pregnancy suffer a single question: boy or girl?

Expectations and superstition

Regardless, we are ready to admit it or not, old wives ‘ tales and superstitions possess the minds of many, even the most enlightened future parents: if the stomach women “acute” and is directed forward, so she will have a boy. If the abdomen was globular, protruding and sides, she should prepare for the appearance of girls. It is also believed that if a woman during pregnancy, lost her looks, she’s a girl, but if bloomed, boy. Another popular superstition that if a pregnant drawn to sweet, so will be a girl, if cold and salty – boy. If the future Pope during pregnancy its second half gained a few pounds, then you need to prepare for the appearance of girls.

But, as is known to all parents, these cute superstitions as nothing more than an excuse to laugh and to brighten up the long months of waiting Continue reading

The education of the child without yelling and punishments.

Education is a science. All parents want to see their child’s cultural, happy and educated. Therefore, they make every effort in education. Some parents believe that it is necessary to constantly scold or punish your baby, other unacceptable this form of communication with children. How to educate? Psychologists completed a number of research and made my conclusions.

An important factor parents – peace of mind

All moms and dads love their kids, however, can not boast of a calm attitude toward pampering your child. In the end, they start screaming, to take up the belt or scold your child. Just imagine that little man feels at the moment. He’s completely defenseless, he has the most native and close people – mom and dad. Suddenly they begin to hurt your baby. The outcome is unfavorable. Psychologists say that such education spoils in the first place the health of the baby. Such children manifest depression in adolescence often leads to suicide.

The child’s mind is disturbed by rough handling or humiliation of the individual. So the first thing parents need to be calm and balanced.

An example to follow

Every child tries to behave exactly like their parents. Before you can educate your child, pay attention Continue reading

Do I Have to spoil their children?

Nobody likes “spoiled” children are selfish, insensitive, demanding, capricious. But how to raise a child, lest he grow up to be? What actions can you spoil a baby?

When my children were still very young, I was often told that I’ll spoil children, because too caressing and comforting them when they cry. Fortunately, I never fell for that stuff.

You can’t spoil a baby with his love. Children just need love, food and fresh air. The problem is, what to call “love.”

When we give children all that they want in material terms, we don’t give them love. Often parents think that by inundating children’s toys or to satisfy their other desires, and show her your love. But therein lies the risk to raise a spoiled child.

There are three negative consequences of dabbling in the child in material terms:

This forms dependent behavior – things and fun substitute for the lack of emotion that is felt by the child. Too many adults are seeking to fill an emotional emptiness inside, buying unnecessary, in General, things or doing more extreme sports. If they have stress, instead find a cause, they try to remove it with the help of shopping, food, alcohol, etc. When we buy your Continue reading

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