Nobody likes “spoiled” children are selfish, insensitive, demanding, capricious. But how to raise a child, lest he grow up to be? What actions can you spoil a baby?
When my children were still very young, I was often told that I’ll spoil children, because too caressing and comforting them when they cry. Fortunately, I never fell for that stuff.
You can’t spoil a baby with his love. Children just need love, food and fresh air. The problem is, what to call “love.”
When we give children all that they want in material terms, we don’t give them love. Often parents think that by inundating children’s toys or to satisfy their other desires, and show her your love. But therein lies the risk to raise a spoiled child.
There are three negative consequences of dabbling in the child in material terms:
This forms dependent behavior – things and fun substitute for the lack of emotion that is felt by the child. Too many adults are seeking to fill an emotional emptiness inside, buying unnecessary, in General, things or doing more extreme sports. If they have stress, instead find a cause, they try to remove it with the help of shopping, food, alcohol, etc. When we buy your Continue reading
The position of parents is one of the key factors that may cool or to catalyze childhood conflicts. Typically, children get along better when they believe that parents don’t play favorites and they rightly apply to all children. When parents constantly praised the success of one child and put it in another example, the relationship between children destroyed. This does not mean that parents should behave equally with all the children. In children of different age and gender needs are different and parents have to take it into account. If one of them needed the jacket, not necessarily another to buy something to wear. Needs a second child may be associated with sports, computer or anything else. Equity does not mean sameness.
Parents it is very difficult to keep an equal distance in relation to children, when there are marital conflicts. When parents don’t get along, they can no longer effectively communicate with children, and this leads to increased strife between brothers and sisters. In a situation of marital crisis children tend to take sides and fight with the supporters of the “enemy” camp.
Parents do not often show flexibility when it comes to intervention in the disputes of their children. Typical Continue reading
My child ” methods of development of children ” the application of TRIZ as a science of creative thinking
In our days all often hear the phrase “creative development of children”. In sale you can find many books with such phrases, but, unfortunately, modern parents often insufficient time to re-read the mountains of pedagogical literature in search of best practices for their child. Therefore, more and more parents are choosing to study on the methodology of TRIZ.
Program “tips” — the theory of inventive problem solving, authored by Henry Saulovich Altshuller. This is a program that will teach your children not to think stereotypically, stereotypical. It teaches to think dialectically, systemically and functionally. Long classes in this program gives children such important qualities as flexibility of thought, his wide range, originality, etc.
As you already know, the leading activity in preschool children is a game. It is in the game and implemented a technology TRIZ. Playing, the child develops creative thinking, learning to create something uniquely new, and not to act on the template.
The TRIZ technology not only develops the imagination of children, Continue reading