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Children’s greed: how to fight it

A young mother, apparently, is serious about the education of his son. But the letter – almost all pedagogical errors, which are only. Let’s talk about them.

. It seems that there is no question: greed is hell is disgusting. Not accidentally the first children’s teaser in the yard: “the Greedy man-beef!”. Probably the first human law and morality begins: share, don’t grab, leave another – think about something else. And the first thing to teach a child to give mom. Let the Pope. Give little brother. Give the boy.

And the first confusion: does not! And the first test of parental ambition: when mom goes out with the boy to walk, and he in front of everyone took away a toy – Oh, how embarrassing! Actually, in my opinion, with many children’s shortcomings, we begin to fight not even because they are so sadden us, but because to save face. And that’s good. Sometimes the troubles begin where it lost all shame before the people.

It seems quite normal: a child will be older and Unlearning from greed. But who knows – some, when they grow up, the latter will give you and others in winter snow is not questioned. Some people whole life even suffer from their greed, though in a hurry to give what they ask, but the torment did not let the greed gnaws the soul.

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Known the desire of the younger preschoolers to independence.

You know the desire of younger preschoolers to independence. It acquires a moral sense in an activity in which the child manifests his attitude towards others. It is not only the execution of specific orders from adults, but also his activities of daily living. The baby is not aware that his first work activity necessary for himself and others, because mastering the right skills allows him to manage without help, do not bother other people by taking care of yourself. The child does not understand that by doing so he takes care of them. This motive of labour youngest preschooler is formed only under the influence of adults. Mastering self-help skills to enable the child to help other children, it requires some effort to achieve the desired result and promotes perseverance.

Thus, the mastery of younger preschool skills such as self – efficient means of education such moral qualities as independence and perseverance.

The family has favorable conditions for attraction of a preschool child to work. Labor order, which the child performs Continue reading

Parents and children: rights and responsibilities.

Somehow in one of the shows on TV showed the nursing home. Many inhabitants of the house were brought here by their children and left in the care of the state. The headmistress says that gradually, the children rarely visit their parents. At first, the old people are outraged, offended, then accept, i.e., as expected, move on the scale of emotions to apathy and death. And interestingly, for 25 years, her work was never a time that someone said it I raised these children. No one has claimed responsibility!

The situation according to our observations, is very characteristic: every parent believes the duty of children to provide him with the attention, support and care in old age. But you ask those who think so, what they did in the process of bringing to this character trait is caring and consideration for others? Very simple truth is that will create is what you get. Why is it that people voluntarily take on this is not very easy to wear: it is well known that with the elderly harder than with a baby. Only Moody, irritable dad will not put in the corner, not forced Continue reading

How to love children? Practical recommendations doctors
American psychiatrist Ross Campbell wrote a book called "How to really love children", which has gained immense popularity endured many editions. Let's look at some excerpts from this book. “the…

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If the child does not respond to treatment and requests
Last week in the newsletter I asked the question: “What is troubling you the most in the child, myself, my family?” After that, I was threatened by an avalanche of…

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Conflicts of children. What to do?
The position of parents is one of the key factors that may cool or to catalyze childhood conflicts. Typically, children get along better when they believe that parents don't play…

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